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    Beautiful Adornments... Luxury Folders

    You are knee-deep in clicking, pinning and saving and what you find is that you have a bevy of beautiful wedding invitations that all start blending together. Pocket folders are a unique way to stand out from the crowd! Not only do they enclose all of your pieces in one neat little package, they are a sure-fire way to set a luxurious tone to your wedding. Most couples have several cards included with their invitations; reply cards, reply envelopes, details cards, maps, rehearsal invitations, brunch invitations, etc. The pocket folder is a great way to hold all of these items together. Even if you just have the standard invitation and reply card, it makes the set look so striking! They add magnitude and luxury to your suite and cost far less than say, letterpress invitations or gold foil embossed suites.


    Pocket folders come scored for ease of folding and a vertical or horizontal pocket of your choice. When you receive your folders, you just need double-stick tape or Glue Dotz from the craft store to adhere your invitation to the back panel. All of your other items just sit in the pocket.


    Getting creative with securing the folders is the fun part! I routinely scour Etsy, eBay and flea markets for vintage ribbon, brass stampings, and antique jewelry to adorn the folders. And they do not have to match! You can get as unique with each guest as you like. If you do not have the time or inclination to search out for these items, I can always design a round or square hangtag that you tie with a ribbon as well. You might not be able to design or print your own wedding invitations, but you can surely tap into your creative side and have fun customizing them!


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    Shimmery black pocket folders with a gold foil Gatsby invitation

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    Anatomy of a Reply Card

    Updated: Jan 4, 2020

    The who, what, when, where and why of wedding invitation response cards. I get more questions regarding reply cards than any other. Reply cards are also known as RSVP cards. To begin with, RSVP stands for répondez s’il vous plaît. In French, “please respond”. You must have some way to let your guests tell you that they are, or are not attending your wedding.

    We never put response requests ON our formal invitations. No matter how small your budget, it is never done. Printing this on the formal invitation gives one the impression of extreme thriftiness on the part of the sender and is frankly, just too casual. Email, phone numbers and websites on the formal invitation look cluttered. You only get married once, we hope, so let’s at least have some decorum and put these details on another card.


    The reply card will have the following:


    Reply by date:

    Traditionally, invitations go out two months prior to your wedding. Your reply by date should be three weeks before your wedding.


    Formal: The favor of a reply is requested by the tenth of June

    Informal: Kindly reply by June 10th

    M________________________

    What is this M in front of the name line? I get this question all the time and it saddens me that this tradition is going by the wayside. Lately, I have replaced M with guest(s) as couples do not care to embrace this tradition today. M in front of the line is for Mr., Mrs., Ms., or Miss. Historically, this is traditional proper protocol.


    Reply envelopes:

    You must include them with your response card and either handwrite or have your Stationer print your return address on the front. Self-mailable postcards are informal but still do the trick if you forgo a proper response envelope.


    Stamps:

    You must place a stamp on the self-mailable reply card or on the reply card envelope. It is bad form to ask your guests to pay for the response to your wedding.


    Meal Choices:

    Many couples like to include meal choices on their reply card so that their caterer can better prepare for the wedding day. This is entirely up to you. A major reason couples send out their invitations late is that they wait and wait and wait for the caterer to sort out the meal choices for the invitations. Caterers do not care about invitation deadlines and the stress this causes the Stationer (me) and the couples (you) is tantamount. If you must put meal choices on your response cards, then go with the bare minimum: meat, fish, vegetarian. This will have to suffice. It’s more important to send out your invitations in a timely manner and to avoid printing rush fees. Caterers will add extra meals; the post office does not add extra days.

    Mailable response card vs an online reply, which is best for you? It depends. If you are having a very formal black tie wedding, something in a grand home, country club or ballroom, you would want a proper mail-in reply card. To do so might be off-putting to some guests. x Below are the pro’s and cons of each side of the argument:


    Online Reply Card Pros

    • You will receive responses sooner

    • Since you do not need an envelope, you will save environmentally and in your wallet

    • Easier for some guests


    Online Reply Card Cons

    • Out of site, out of mind; spend more time tracking down responses from guests who simply forgot

    • Too casual for formal weddings

    • Older guests may have a hard time navigating the web. My Father could never reply online. As he says “I don’t have an internet”.

    • How do you indicate how many are invited with just a link? You will have to have numerous conversations or a way to indicate online what the guest limit is. You may not want everyone to bring a "plus one".

    • You must have a shortened url. It is difficult for older guests or guests on mobile devices to type something like this in order to reply: theknot.com/us/courtney-hanley-&-stephen-shaunessey-get-married-2020



    Mail-in Reply Cards Pros

    • A physical card that requires action is more reliable for getting responses

    • It’s classier

    • Every day you receive a response in the mail is like getting a letter from a friend. When do you ever receive letters these days? Many guests take the time to write a little handwritten note on your reply cards. You can even add a few lines on your card for this. I kept all of mine and tied them with a pretty ribbon.


    Mail-in Reply Cards Cons

    The added cost of the stamp and envelopes

    Not as environmentally friendly


    With the advent of technology, we seem to lose little pieces of traditions every day. It would be a shame for weddings to go fully digital. When you look back on your 50th wedding anniversary, what will you have besides your love and photos? Paper will be there. Texts, wedding websites and email confirmations will all be long gone after your wedding day. Let’s ditch the traditions that are not so important to us. Tossing the garter can go, bridesmaids don’t always have to wear the same dress and we really do not have to throw rice. As a self-proclaimed paper and etiquette collector, I admit the online reply is becoming more and more popular. Let’s just make sure we keep it OFF of the invitation and ON a separate card, no matter what you decide to do.


    A traditional reply card


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    Glamorous Celestial Wedding in Hollywood

    Updated: Nov 20, 2019

    Oh, so glamorous was this "Moon and Stars" themed styled shoot in Hollywood, California! Fabulous SoCal based wedding planner Marine from Flower and Sugar events pulled together this shoot and we were recently featured in the blog, Glamour and Grace. Check out the full feature here. Marisa Peterson shot the eclectic mix of celestial decor and delivers stunning and ethereal shots! The venue is the Women's Club of Hollywood, a building from 1905 and steeped with Hollywood history! Check out the full wedding suite here:


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    The stunning wedding party in our celestial themed shoot

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    Moon Background: @papermoonshoppe // Dress: @lilibridals @missstellayork @wtoowatters

    Suits: @stitchandtie // HMU Team: @ericalemakeup @elmmakeupandhair // Models: @victoriatruscott @allisonlivesonearth @LyricEverly @CharlesCurtisOfficial @christianhoward // DJ: @dartcollective

    Wedding Cake: @belladonnasweets // Macarons: @bijouxmacs // Cotton Candy Machine: @catchandparty // Cold Brew Coffee: @bokettocoldbrew // Cookies: @salt_and_flour // Photo Booth: @thephotobugcompany // Candle Cart: @banterandbliss // Catering: @papasinthekitchen


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